Monday, May 18, 2009
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Monday, May 11, 2009
On NPR
At My Place, Every Day Is Mother's Day
Weekend Edition Saturday, May 9, 2009 · NPR
My wife doesn't work. She's a full-time mother. She luxuriates in bed until 6:30 a.m., when our 2-year-old chants, "Mama, Mama!" like some ancient war call, and she trudges into the kitchen with our baby on one shoulder to use her free hand to heat milk.
I stay in my office, writing, procrastinating and checking baseball scores until I need another cup of coffee.
My wife tries to go to the bathroom. Our 2-year-old clings to her knees. Using a bathroom with a 2-year-old on your lap should be a rodeo event.
Our 6-year-old gets up and chirps, "Mama! Mama!" My wife holds our 2-year-old in one arm, our 6-year-old with the other, and heats up more milk with her third hand.
I come into the kitchen for more coffee.
She dresses our daughters. It's like trying to put tuxedo shirts on two squiggling ferrets. My wife walks our daughters 10 blocks to kindergarten, but it takes half an hour because our girls won't step on cracks, stop to look in every window and stomp in every puddle. She has to pull them along like sacks of nails.
When she gets back to our apartment, my wife can finally relax. She does laundry; pays bills; stays on hold with the credit card, Internet and phone companies for 45 minutes because the bill is wrong, while our 2-year-old swings from her neck like a chimp; resets the wireless service; changes diapers and light bulbs; buys food; picks up toys; cleans the fish bowl and hermit crab habitat; organizes closets; cleans what our cat coughs up; schleps to the storage locker; tries to take a shower but can't because our 2-year-old can't find her stuffed dog; picks up our 6-year-old from school and takes her to ballet; makes three meals and innumerable snacks; calls our mothers and sends them photos of their grandchildren; and wipes up milk, water and diaper spills the way Red Adair put out oil fires.
I help by calling my wife a couple of times a day to tell her how busy I am and ask, "Um, darling, can you find my red socks?"
She has four minutes a day to herself and eats only Cheerios that fall on the floor. She works 15 hours a day with no breaks or mandated meals, 365 days a year with no real vacations. Our daughters feel free to cough up and sneeze things into her hands. If Samuel Gompers heard about my wife's working conditions, he'd say, "Organize and fight!"
Instead, she knows that in these times it's a gift to be able to be a full-time mother. You know: just to be home with the kids.
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Friday, May 1, 2009
Happy May Day!
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
R Rated
I was changing Ruby's diaper. Juan was watching and Noah was eating cereal.
Juan - Mom, Ruby has a gina?
Me - Yep, Juan, Ruby has a vagina.
Noah- Juan, don't talk about Ruby's vagina while I'm eating!
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Happy Birthday Ruby and Noah - (Brant posted the video for me)
Unfortunately I have no video or pictures that can be posted of when Noah was a baby bc we didn't have a digital camera yet, but here is a video of Ruby's first few moments! Makes me cry every time. :)
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Link for trailer to "The way we get by"
Check it out Military Mamas! (and everyone else)
Sunday, April 19, 2009
Monday, April 13, 2009
Spring
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Happy Easter
Sending you all love today and moments to reflect on the enormity of how this day changed our destinies.
Thursday, April 9, 2009
You know you've lost it when.....
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Favorite New CD
I've recently been exploring the world of children's music, something I haven't done since I was Madeleine's Nanny 6 years ago! This CD by Elizabeth Mitchell is my present favorite. Here is a link where you can listen, the girls' favorite is "three little birds".
http://www.youaremyflower.org/home.html
Monday, April 6, 2009
The Poem of the day
by
Jaime Adoff
Rock n Roll Dad cooks
in the kitchen
radio blasts
always on ten!!
It's so LOUD, I have to shout,
"WHEN ARE WE GOING TO EAT!?"
Dad yells,
"SOOOOOON!"
Dancing past me with his spoon.
Pots shake,
pans vibrate.
Mom screams:
"It's an earthquake!"
"What?" Dad yells back.
I roll my eyes.
Mom shakes her head.
Rock n Roll Dad is a little deaf.
"A lot." Mom says.
"Too many years playing drums." Rock n Roll Dad shouts, twirling his sticks and stirring the sauce.
"Can I go to the club with you tonight?" I ask Dad.
"You're not old enough yet." He answers back.
"I want to go. I'm eight years old. I’m old enough to Rock n Roll."
. . . One day I'm gonna play the drums too.
My hands will fly so fast
my sticks will break the speed of sound.
I'll be the best drummer in town.
I play the plates with my carrot stick-sticks.
Splashing salsa cymbals with my rock n roll chips . . .
©2009 Jaime Adoff. All rights reserved.
Excerpt taken from "Rock n Roll Dad" to be published by Disney-Hyperion
Sunday, April 5, 2009
Poem a day
At this web address is a children's poem a day for the month of April in celebration of Poetry Month. It's been fun reading the different authors for just the last few........I may just post them now and again......
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Roars and Showers
In this part of the world March decided to Roar its way out. We had a rainy and very windy day yesterday with the proof of it today in the scattered twigs and branches everywhere. April is making it's presence known with multiple types of showers....... snow, slush, and rain have all been on the agenda today with a very merry April Fools feeling to it. I do hope May is not feeling to burdened with all the hopes we are laying on her for sun and those May flowers!
Happy April 1st and Fools to all!
1 Corinthians 1:27